Honoring Mukhtar Mai for International Women’s Day

by Robyn on March 8, 2010

Today, in honor of International Women’s Day, I thought who better to highlight than one of the bravest women I know who has made a tremendous impact on me. Her courage, and entrepreneurial spirit is a testimony that all things are possible if you believe, work hard and never ever give up on your dream.

Mukhtaran Mai – I’ve mentioned Mukhtar Mai before, her story of triumph and determination always moves me. Her brother was falsely accused of fornication. She went to court to argue on his behalf and was sentenced to the most severe form of humiliation in her culture. In the eyes of  her family and village her destiny was suicide. However and most importantly not in her eyes, she stood up to her attackers and demanded prosecution. The Pakistani government gave her $8300 compensation and she used that along with money from other donors to build a primary school for girls. The story doesn’t end there, she’s also built a high school for girls, runs a school for boys, she bought a van for the schools that is also the village ambulance and she has a herd of dairy cows that generate an income and help her maintain the schools. And in March of 2009….she married. I’m really in awe of this woman as when she set out to start the primary school she was unable to read and write and enrolled herself. While I think  Mukhtaran Mai”s story is tragic, it’s my hope that in the years to come that she is known for her leadership, entrepreneurship, courage, and the sheer goodness she has brought to Meerwala.

Mukhtar Mai’s story has had a profound impact on me personally in ways that I still struggle to put into words. I am currently working on a plan to put action behind the impact and to thank Mukhtar Mai….stay tuned as I will share that here.

So now it is your turn….is there a woman in your life who has had an unexpected profound impact? What’s the cause and effect of that impact? I’d love to hear your story and hers!

photo credit: Ronda Churchill

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  • gregandersonpetersaustralia

    I have just watched the film dedicated to Mukhtaran Mai and was deeply moved by her disgraceful treatment and disgusted by the actions of her accused rapist's family. The mother of the men who abused her should hold her head in shame and ask herself how she could protect the animals she bred who commited the crime. As a woman, she should be ashamed of her self and never put herself on the same esteemed levl as Mukhtaran Mai, in fact she isn't worth talking about as she is as guily as her sons for protecting them.

    I will continue to follow this remarkable woman's progress through her beautiful life. I can only pray my daughters turn-out to be 1% as good as her and I will be proud.

  • Penny Lee

    I also have just seen Mukhtaran Mai on film, and I could not believe the evil that was perpetrated in her village and then held to be
    just part of Pakistani culture and morals. If ignorant, uneducated and revengeful people are to be seen as the dregs of society, I cannot find a strong enough phrase for the official woman, towards the end of the film, who was obviously part of a government scheme to kidnap and silence Mukhtaran Mai. The loud hectoring and bullying were shameful, and I found myself shouting at the television screen for her to shut up. Mukhtaran Mai had much more dignity than I did, and kept on with her honest, strong but quiet remarks.

    Pakistan is presenting a bitter, twisted, really evil version of Islam, one, I have realised with something of a shock, that is
    going to disgust so many observers, because official corruption and bias is dishonestly put forward as an ideal religion.

  • Sally Munday

    I also have just finished watching the film and was also deeply touched and moved by all that she has been through. What a beautiful woman in everyway! After watching it I felt like I just wanted to meet her and shake her hand. I thought it was amazing that she chose to use that $8300 that was for her suffering for the good of others. I loved what her Father said, I have made mistakes as a father but I must have done something right to have a daughter like Mukhtaran Mai…I am amazed that she was able to endure all that she has and really she is my hero in so many ways…

  • http://www.projectauthenticity.com Robyn

    I really do appreciate your comments and I agree Mukhtaran Mai is quite remarkable because her story is no longer that of victim but victor! I really appreciated her Father's comment as well.

  • http://www.projectauthenticity.com Robyn

    Penny
    I am grateful for your passionate response. This story is one that enrages me when I focus on the violence and corruption alone. I am not a student of Islam by any means however I don't think that it is what is evil. I think it's the culture and lack of education. Care has statistics that show that the violence ends when the education begins.By educating the people of Meerwala she can bring about cultural change and ultimately I think that's what's really important. I absolutely despise all that Mukhtar Mai has been through, but I love that she's no longer a victim.

  • http://www.projectauthenticity.com Robyn

    I absolutely agree Mukhtar Mai's story is profound and has deeply affected me as well. I totally agree the only person who deserves any attention is this story is Mukhtar Mai, she's the victor. I hope one day her village can truly embrace all the good she's doing and her love for it. Thank you for your comments.

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  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=8625753 Paula Marie Salmon

    Bless you for holding on to a perspective of something better for your community. What an example of someone being true to what's inside so as to make the surroundings shine. Your ability to empower others is truly a gift.

  • http://www.projectauthenticity.com Robyn

    Thanks for your comments. I think the choice Mukhtar Mai made to pour back into her community is one courageous act. And the impact speaks for itself. Just goes to show one person can make a positive impact globally!

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_YFSGH2LKL2EUN55WU26WT637XA Noemi

    i just read the story of Mukhtaran Mai and i was really moved and inspired..i just wish that every women will fight 4 her right and Pakistani women will follow her and not to condemen her..pls continue to follow her journey..i will always include you in my prayer and mukhtar- noemi

  • Amy

    Penny Lee,

    No religion can be downed because of the way that it’s “followers act”. Islam teaches peace, just like all other religions. When begin to criticize an “entire” religion based on the “minority of its follows who don’t practie the basic principals of that religion, such as love, care and honesty, like Islam, then we speak out of ignorance, and then their is truly no difference between us “the educated ones” and them “whether we all them evil/uneducated…or an other lable. Please do the research, from unbias and factual websites then begin to express your thoughts based only on “Knowledge”, rather than anger…..because it takes anger and hate to divide communities and love, acknowledgement and patience to unite communities. So, let us all learn, and study basic principals and foundamentals of Islam before we begin to go as far as call it “evil”.

    Thank you,

    Hibaq
    was they should,

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